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Do you find that when your down in the dumps nobody wants to help or be around you..?

and its only when your happy that people will want to converse with you..?
or is it just my particular group of friends


Asked by Liz4Life at 2:14 AM on May. 15, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • Not really...when i'm down, everyone is usually very sensitive to my mood and asks what they can do to cheer me up. Personally, when i'm feeling like that I like to be alone with my thoughts and I turn down all the offers of company and chocolate....It might be your group of friends but it also might be the way you act when you get down...I know I can be a BITCH sometimes....

    Answer by ShainaMay at 2:29 AM on May. 15, 2011

  • There used to be a song that said "laugh and the whole world laughs with you. cry and you cry alone". I just stay away from people when I'm down.

    Answer by admckenzie at 2:39 AM on May. 15, 2011

  • I know exactly what you mean.i feel the same sometimes

    Answer by LARRYSWiiFE at 2:19 AM on May. 15, 2011

  • I enjoy my own pity parties. I do my best to not let anyone know when I'm down.

    Answer by Kathy675 at 2:55 AM on May. 15, 2011

  • yep. & that's when I get on cafemom!! makes me feel better. FB makes it worse cause people talk to much crap on there!

    Answer by mrsary at 5:30 AM on May. 15, 2011

  • People don't like to talk to "debbie downers". I spend lots of time alone or an Cafe Mom.

    Answer by meooma at 11:50 AM on May. 15, 2011

  • I think if your down maybe being around some happy & positive people would help boost your mood. Everyone gets down from time to time so people should accept you no matter how you feel.

    Answer by busyasabee at 2:17 PM on May. 15, 2011

  • My friends (true) ones are always w/me no matter what kind of mood I am in.

    Answer by PatriciaofMN at 4:40 PM on May. 15, 2011

  • I know what you mean... It's kinda sad though

    Answer by Helen2004 at 12:22 PM on May. 15, 2011

  • YES I know exactly what you mean.i feel the same sometimes

    Answer by GlitteribonMom at 2:31 PM on May. 15, 2011