I too have a friend like that. After hearing her whining about man and family issues for the millionth time, I told her, "Look, I love you enough to be honest with you, your problem is your choices period." She wasn't too happy about hearing that, but she's slowly coming around since her divorce left her bitter and mean. Sure she didn't call me for a few days, but she got over it. If your friend is a real friend, she'll understand that you love her enough to be honest with her. If you really cannot stand it, then you may have to do the thing that's very hard for us women to do, and that's breakup with a BFF. Good luck.
at 10:29 PM on May. 16, 2011