(sorry, long and dont know what category)
heres what happens
-i do the laundry and never put it away so just keep it in the hamper folded (i dont have room in my dresser)
-my SO thinks they are dirty so he puts his dirty clothes over it (even though they are folded! just because they are in the hamper doesnt mean they are dirty...ive told him this..)
-i have to clean the whole bunch over again because the clothes get jumbled so i dont know whats dirty or clean now
-it wastes water and time and makes me very frustrated
now, im not helpless so what i've done is:
-got rid of clothes so that I have more room in my dresser, but it is filled to the brim and they get wrinkled tucked so tightly in like that (so i guess i have still have to get rid of more OR fix up a new closet arrangement)
-established 2 different hampers: one thats mine and one thats his
-i said, do your own laundry and ill do mine
he tosses clothes left and right so his clothes still end up in mine. he is a slob, simply put, so i kindly put them in his hamper. then they start bulging over and falling out of his hamper and spill out all over the floor and get into my hamper (full of clean clothes) again.
i could move my hamper so that its not next to his but it would be in the middle of the room since there is no room.
what sounds like the best accommodation here? any other suggestions besides what ive done already, or you think i should still get rid of clothes? i dont feel like i have that many, maybe 50 shirts and 5 pairs of pants. thank you!
Answer by Anonymous at 12:17 AM on May. 16, 2011
Answer by SMITxsM2 at 12:22 AM on May. 16, 2011
Answer by tootoobusy at 12:29 AM on May. 16, 2011
If you've told him this he should at least have to courtesy to pay attention!! if you each have your own hamper tell him to stop putting his crap in your hamper or he can do the laundry!! Then get a cover for yours so he can't put his crap in there.
Answer by Crafty26 at 12:22 AM on May. 16, 2011
Answer by SissyAnn141 at 12:39 AM on May. 16, 2011
Answer by Ms.Gwen at 11:36 AM on May. 16, 2011