I've been single since January, I miss the attention of men. I work and go to school so any free time is spent with my two small children. Not long after my SO ended things I started talking to a guy I met through a mutual friend, we send naughty texts and photos to each other and I love the attention. We've never actually done anything together given my lack of time for socializing and he also works 6 days a week and spends his free time with his 2 year old daughter. I recently found out he started dating a girl about a month ago which doesn't really bother me because I never saw myself being in an actual relationship with him but he continues to text me every few weeks; I know what it feels like to be cheated on and I feel bad for his girlfriend but at the same time I'm still hurt from my jerk ex and the attention from this guy makes me feel better until I start thinking about if I was in his girlfriend's position and how I'd feel if I found texts like the ones he and I share on my boyfriend's phone. Of course he probably either doesn't allow her to touch his phone and/or deletes all his messages before he sees her. I've thought about bringing it up to him that I know he has a girlfriend but I don't want to seem like I'm mad at him for having one. I don't know this girl or have any loyalty to her but as someone who has been cheated on and has had a boyfriend that did this same sort of thing with another woman I feel for her.
So, if you were in my place, would you continue texting back and forth with this guy or cut off contact all together?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:15 PM on May. 16, 2011 in Relationships
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