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Bribe with money

what is your view on a mother bribing their child with money so they will "clean up" or "be quiet".

(no i do not do this, i just know of someone who does an it would be nice to see what others thing of this style of "parenting" even though i dont think its very good parenting but who am i to say anything?! :) )

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akalei

Asked by akalei at 2:31 PM on May. 16, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • I dont bribe. I do reward though and pay them. My kids get paid for good grades, awards at school and after school, and if I ask them to do a chore they get paid for that too. It works for my family.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 2:32 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • My Mom used to bribe my dad with money so he would take my younger sister out of the house. I always thought it was stupid and didn't show or teach anyone anything. Chores, special projects or something like that where they actually "earn" their money like a real life job sure but to hush up or just leave me alone.. never
    zoejains_momma

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 2:35 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • I would never do it! If my kids do things with out being asked they MIGHT get a reward but I would never give them money for me forcing them to do something
    Mikayla_lynn

    Answer by Mikayla_lynn at 2:35 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • Bribing with $$ sets a dangerous (and expensive) precedent. Slippery slope man ... slippery slope.
    EgoTryptophan

    Answer by EgoTryptophan at 2:43 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • i agree! its kinda like you get paid for this.. what would the kid do when they are older =/ thats the first thing that comes to my mind.
    akalei

    Comment by akalei (original poster) at 2:47 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • My kids to get an allowance every week, but how much they earn depends on how many and what chores they did. Each chore has a set amount ($.75 for taking the trash out, etc), and they don't earn it if I have to ask them. But bribes so they won't tell you, that could be dangerous.
    IrishMomma727

    Answer by IrishMomma727 at 2:49 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • I have some younger relatives that still won't do a favor without opening their hand for cash because that was how they were raised. Earning money doing chores is one thing, but bribing kids to do what they already should is quite another thing.
    hotelmom123

    Answer by hotelmom123 at 3:20 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • I think it is HORRIFIC parenting and will back fire on you... and give this world just another bratty adult with a "I deserve" attitude.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:20 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • couldnt agree more @ anonymous!
    akalei

    Comment by akalei (original poster) at 9:17 PM on May. 16, 2011

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