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If u found one in your man pocket,would you be mad or happy that he is using protection.

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Asked by mamaofficer at 4:32 PM on May. 16, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I wouldn't be happy that he's cheating period, but I guess I'd be a bit more relieved to find out he is at least using condoms?

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:33 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • i found one in my husbands jacket pocket. needless to say we are now divorced! not just because of that but it certainly didnt help

    Answer by mykidsmom86 at 4:33 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • If we were using them I wouldn't say anything, but to find one out of the blue, I'd kill him , then think to ask why he had one. (bwahahahaha)

    Seriously I would ask him what was up, and why exactly did he have protection, I'd be a bit pissed off.

    Answer by kitchenwitch78 at 4:34 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • This happened me to. Right around the time I found him txting some random girl. He claims he doesnt know where the condoms came from and this girl is just a friend. RED FLAGS.

    We dont use protection either

    Answer by SweetPoison at 4:37 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • omgosh id kill him lol.. if we dont use them he has no reason to have them!

    Answer by kimsmith22 at 4:37 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • Oh man. I found a bunch in SO's work apron one time. I FREAKED OUT! Bad. He took a delivery to Planned Parenthood and took them back to put in the delivery bags (the guys are always doing crap like that to each other) but they got busy and he forgot. Once I got an explanation I was ok. They are still sitting in our bathroom cupboard.. LOL

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:41 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • We don't use them, so if I found one that would only mean one thing. I would be very upset.

    Answer by RelaxedMom2-3 at 4:44 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • Hmm... with Dh's disgust for women who hit on him cracks me up.

    If it were my ex, I'd like to have shot him.

    Answer by matobe at 4:48 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • ^ All of the above.

    Answer by SMITxsM2 at 5:37 PM on May. 16, 2011

  • Considering my dh had a vasectomy after our son was born 3 years ago, we would be having a conversation.

    Answer by buzymamaof3 at 5:58 PM on May. 16, 2011

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