in jan of this year my SO's phone rang, i recognized the number was f/ his ex gf's area in southern cali...we've had a lot of problems with her b/c even after she knew about us and dd, she'd still confess her love to him. then he'd tell me how crazy she was, but once in a blue moon they'd send emails. he cut off all contact with her a couple months ago after her mother was trying to get in touch with him and the whole family just wouldn't quit. none of them are friends on fb anymore, etc etc (him and the ex were already not fb friends and stuff)
anyway, long story short i went in his phone yesterday and listened to the deleted message from that number i was curious about (yes i was snooping, but stumbled upon this- had no idea iphone saves deleted voicemails lol), and he told me it was her sister when i asked him about it, BUT he lied- it was her, his ex...
i know it sound foolish to care, but i do. i'm very upset he lied. would i have been upset if he told me it was her? yea, and it probably would have caused a fuss, but i would have been happier that he was honest. he's hell bent on honesty and openness, so if he lied about something so small- makes me wonder what else he's lied about...
am i just being paranoid??
please no bashing and/or comments about facebook since this has nothing to do with that, it was just part of the story
Asked by Anonymous at 7:05 PM on May. 16, 2011 in Relationships
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