i am not complaining, this is an actual question, ok
there are 3 things that upsets me about my partner:
now, do you think it's unhealthy or healthy of me to do these exact things also(as a coping strategy) and let go of the expectations i have of myself?
in which case I personally would
1) stop cleaning
out of respect for myself and for him I clean, do not drink to get drunk, and keep a distance from men
However, I could easily just "let go" and stop resisting (not that I have this huge urge) so that his habits aren't so unattractive in my eyes.
It's hard to explain but is that clear?
I just feel that if i can do these 3 things too, I wouldn't care as much if he did.
Effective coping strategy, or unhealthy?
i am not the nagging type, it drains me, so the last thing i would want to do is try to get him to stop, (plus i cant change him so why try)
Answer by gwen20 at 2:23 AM on May. 17, 2011
IT:S TEMPING TO DO THOSE THINGS WHEN WE GEWT. FED UP BUT 2 WRONGS DONT MAKE A RIGHT......SO KEEP YOUR INTEGRETY AND IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT IT WILL TAKE YOU A LONG WAY BABY GIRL!
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