Well i was young mom at the age of 19 was a mother of my now 3year old son Haiden. I am with his father still and married to him.
But before we lived in our house we lived in an apartment and i worked 2 jobs before i became a stay at home mom. WHen our son was born i was working in a day care from 8am until 6pm so we had a babysitter who watched him and my husband would come home at 2pm. so it was just me eating at the daycare for breakfast and lunch and dinner. So my husband would do the dishes, and feed our son. Then i left that job and got a new job. I worked at 4pm until 9pm. so i would be home in the day and i would then have a scehdule on how to clean the house , take care of my son and keep my husband happy. Well i left that job and then decied to be come a stay at home mom. Where then i would do daily house cleaning,and on friday's the major cleaning would be done. It was working out perfect.
Then we moved into our house we are in now. I am still a stay at home mom and now i babysit too. when our son turned 2 and half years old we had our son logan. I didn't clean for 2 weeks after he was home. THen i went back to every friday i would clean, but iwould do the dishes 3 times a day and laundry every other day. Then i stopped that for a while and became sick with a flu which put me at just take care of me and kids and no cleaning. Then i started writing down things that i want to get done that day and stick with it. it was working until i ran out of paper and my husband yelled at me saying don't waste paper over that. So i went back to the every friday routine.
NOw i just got into a TV show on netflix and my cleaning and doing things just took a turn. I told my husband i feel guilty for not cleaning, and letting things go. He said but u need to take time for yourself, and the house is in good condition.
I don't know if i belive him or not, but i feel horrible because it seems like i just got lazy and don't want to clean.
how do u women do it.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:47 AM on May. 17, 2011 in Home & Garden
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