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my feelings and dreams were right....

I wrote in a question to you all on Tuesday night....and I ended up going to my Dr. on Wednesday afternoon....my gutt feelings were right....they didn't find a heart beat when I went that day....the baby had perished already...i went in for a d and c yesterday morning.....i'm living a real nightmare.....
thanks to those of you that responded to my question.....this is really hard....but I guess it could be worse....some women have to push out a lifeless child and go home from the hospital empty handed.....i'm trying to cope with this loss....we are young and we will try again....thanks again for your responses....

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Asked by jmvtmom at 4:25 PM on Dec. 6, 2008 in Pregnancy

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  • i am truely sorry.. that just broke my heart. good luck to you and your family you'll be in my prayers.

    Answer by krazyash023 at 4:26 PM on Dec. 6, 2008

  • awwww im so sorry jmvtmom

    Answer by butterscotch297 at 4:26 PM on Dec. 6, 2008

  • I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you. I lost my first baby in utero and had to deliver. It was surreal. I felt like I was watching a horrible movie and it wasn't actually happening to me. I went into a deep depression as soon as I got home from the hospital. It was a horrible horrible experience to say the least. You will heal in time but you will never forget. It haunts me but I have a beautiful 3 year old son and a ltttle girl due in April. I wish you the best of luck. It WILL get better in time. Grieve all you need for now.

    Answer by blainesmommy03 at 6:12 PM on Dec. 6, 2008

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