So my bf says all i do is nag him. Im pregnant and due in September. I am currently on leave from my job bc of a weight restriction. When I worked by BF didnt have a job. I took care of gas cigarettes and food for him. Now that Im not working he doesnt help me at all..of course I dont smoke but I would love to have a little money to spend on baby stuff. I mean I dont understand why he wont save any money to buy baby stuff. He says the more I nag and bit** the more he isnt gonna help. Am I wrong here or should I just not care what he does with his money??
I agree with the others and I have also learned my lesson the hard way. Start pricing baby things, and then show him how much the BASICS cost.....let him know that the baby needs these things, over and over and over again. If he's not willing to help support the baby now, what's going to change his mind later? When you REALLY need the stuff? To be as honest as the first reply was......no REAL man is going to deny his child of things that are needed. No REAL man would be worried that the mother is a nag and holds that against her. What you're dealing with now is just the beginning and if you allow it to continue.....it's going to get worse and be a bad for all involved. Hugs to you and good luck!
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