The only thing you can do is be there for your kids and do as many things you can for them. Talk to them, ask them what they feel. Don't jump into a new realtionship because that is the downfall of many child/parent relationships after a divorce or separation. Your children need all of you right now, you should try not to think of their father right now. Just think of him as on his own, it isn't your job to see if he is okay or what he is feeling. he left, your job is to take care of your children any way you can. His reason is his own and you shouldn't dwell on it. I'm here if you need a friend. Good luck to you.
at 2:15 PM on May. 17, 2011