Kind of long but i will keep it at short as possible...
My dh has 2 moms... step mom who raised him and his bio mom who pretty much abandonded him until he was a teen. My mom and his step mom live in the same town. My mom is paying to fly my dd across country to stay with her for a few weeks this summer and dhs step mom is going to have her for a few days too. here is the issue... my bio MIL lives in the next state over (about 8-10hrs) and i just know she is going to b**ch to no end that she didn't get to see my dd. My mom and i think that if we give her the option she will try to control the entire trip by saying something redictulous like... put her on a bus so she can spend a weekend with me or im picking her up for the weekend over the 4th of july. keep in mind that my mom paid over $600 for this flight. So, should we even mention that my dd is going to be there? what would you do? My dh doesn't care either way, he doesn't really even like her.
Answer by minimo77 at 9:28 PM on May. 17, 2011
Answer by Jademom07 at 3:49 PM on May. 17, 2011
I think it would be very gracious of all involved for your mother to invite the bio mil for a 2 day/ 1 night stay at her home on the second to the last day before your daughter leaves.
That way bio-mil has the opportunity to see your daughter, but it is at your mothers home under her watchful eye, and it is close enough to the end of the trip that bio mil wont take over.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:48 PM on May. 17, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 3:49 PM on May. 17, 2011
Answer by MamaStuart at 9:56 PM on May. 17, 2011
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