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Im going crazy

i have a two week old and a 2 year old and a 1 year old they boys always want to slap her in the face and they are becoming really bad throwing stuff hurting each other pushing me and everyone else trying to bite people cussing throwing food i can only take care of her cause i had my csection how can i control them without spanking them i really need advice thank you

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devlynsmommy08

Asked by devlynsmommy08 at 5:35 PM on May. 17, 2011 in Toddlers (1-2)

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  • Wow...just wow. They are freaking 2 and 1. You lost control long before the c-section.


    It's time to stop being a wimpy mom and get it together. Time-outs, taking thinks away...something.
    BradenIsMySon

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 5:37 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • And you need to get the daddy to step up.
    BradenIsMySon

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 5:38 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • umm excuse me i didnt ask for bitchy advice and no they just started this when the baby came so thank you very much
    devlynsmommy08

    Comment by devlynsmommy08 (original poster) at 5:39 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • Sounds like they are acting out because of the new baby. You need to find someone to help you. It would help the older ones if they had someone to take them out (away from the baby) for a while. My dd's behavior was not the best once ds came along. She was jealous and wanted attention. I try to praise her, and spend time with her without ds around. She needed to feel that she was still loved and just as important. Best of luck to you mama!!!
    AngieBry

    Answer by AngieBry at 5:40 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • A cussing 1 and 2 year old didn't start in 2 weeks. Not to mention, if that only happened just since baby was born, spend some time with them, and don't let them feel left out.


    Do you have no one there to help at all?
    BradenIsMySon

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 5:41 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • it sounds like they're jealous. Make sure that you have some time each day for one on one with each child. And let the boys help with the baby. they can bring you diapers/toys ect. and Make sure Dad is spending time with them too. THey need to know that their behavior is inappropriate but that yuo love them too.
    MommyYeoman

    Answer by MommyYeoman at 5:42 PM on May. 17, 2011

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