I have been with my dh for 11 years. He has a younger sister, by 8 or 9 years. Up until about a couple of years ago, she would be overly 'friendly" towards him. She would sit in his lap, play with his ears, play with his hair, massage his shoulders, you get the picture...
I found it completely strange, inappropriate, so I said something to him about it. Being a man, he never noticed it. He never acted like this towards her. He agreed, and felt weird about it. He said something to her after she started up, and it made her mad and offended her. So, it mostly stopped.
Well, what made me think of it again, was her visiting home this past weekend. She moved away and has not been in town since Christmas. She asked to see her brother(of course) but did not want to her niece and nephew, or me(which I couldn't care less).
Anyone with any insight in to why she acts like this towards her brother? She is not in a relationship, she cannot keep a boyfriend because she gets clingy and too serious too fast. I know from her telling me she felt like I took him from her when we got married and she always talks about when she was little, she idolized him. Other than that, I have no clue???
Anyone else ever been in a similar situation?? Mostly just curious...
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