I have an almost 2 year old son..Im 19 and just got back together with the father 3 months ago after an almost year long custody battle..I know seems wierd but I guess we really didnt get over eachother.He lives with his parents and I live with my cousin. I am looking for work and he works a minimumwage job with tips..this morning I found out that I am pregnant..we really dont belive in abortion and I think that I would be way to attached to give it up for adoption. However I know that we are not stable enough to take care of it. My aunt cant have kids and could take it. or I could get an abortion...please help me relize what I need to do..Answer Question
Answer by Bugzmomma at 7:01 PM on May. 17, 2011
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Answer by Kambrosino07 at 8:00 PM on May. 17, 2011
What a tough situation to be in. You are going to have to ask yourself some very hard questions. Can you live with an abortion? Would your boyfriend be able to deal with it?
Can you live with your baby being raised away from you? What will your older child think seeing the whole pregnancy and then having their sibling not come home? Will your boyfriend even be willing to give up his rights? How will family react ? Can you look at your baby and then actually hand them to someone else to raise? Can you live with never being mommy? How will this baby feel knowing you kept your older child but not him/her? Adoption comes with lifelong pain.
If you decide to parent your baby it will be hard but there is help out there. If you need help finding resources to parent you can PM me or the Birthmom group here is really good at finding help. You need to sit down and think very hard. Do not let anyone pressure you
Answer by Aislin at 10:30 PM on May. 17, 2011
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