When I got with my SO everything was rainbows and sunshine....when we decided to move me in he warned me he's a totaly diff. person to date then he is to live with...he said he doesnt like to be messed with when he gets home from work...okay fine take time to unwind before joining the family...well I've been here going on 2 months now and he has shut down at least 7 times...3 in the first wk here...by shutting down I mean he seems perfectly fine 1 min. then he wont talk to me...wont tell me whats wrong..nothing...and if I push the issue he says things like hes not sure he wants to be with me...things he takes back when he's over whatever was bothering him...1 time it happened over pizza...he ordered pizza the night before and my kids and I ate the leftovers the next morning...he came home expecting to get some and just shut down...it's usually over stupid shit like that too and he has told me to leave him alone when he gets like that...that it's usually stupid stuff and he makes it a bigger deal in his head then it is and just needs time to proccess it and realise he's being dumb...I've gotten used to it for the most part...except when I know why he's upset and it's for a valid reason adn he still wont talk to me about it not even when he's over it. Is this normal behavior? should he go talk to someone?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:20 PM on May. 17, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by anon1986East at 8:06 PM on May. 17, 2011
Answer by JackieGirl007 at 8:59 PM on May. 17, 2011
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