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If divorced or separated...

how long into the relationship did you know it wasn't working? how long until you split?

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:30 PM on May. 17, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • 6 years in. divorced after 8. tried counseling for awhile.

    Answer by mykidsmom86 at 8:33 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • I knew once I was married after a year and a half but by then I was pregnant and tried to make it work. I was divorced by year 4.

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 8:37 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • knew we wernt right for each other in only a few months or less. stayed for 2 years

    Answer by cnv13085 at 8:40 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • 6 years in divorced right at the 7 year mark (one week after the divorce was final)

    Answer by smurfyangel at 8:43 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • About a year and a half into it. Then i broke it off and found out i was pregnant. Stayed together for the kids two more years then split. I tried to make it work but i was the only one. We'd still be together if he'd tried too.

    Answer by tattooedmama126 at 9:03 PM on May. 17, 2011


    Answer by rinamomof2 at 11:18 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • was married for 17 years, at year 10 we started drifting apart, he started cheating, separated on and off for the next 7 years and finally divorced at year 17.

    Answer by lucky35 at 12:47 PM on May. 18, 2011

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