so i was on facebook now, just browsing out of sheer boredom. this guy i went to highschool with, and was good friends with his older sister (who is the same age as me, he is a year or two younger) IM'ed me on facebook. he IM's me all the time and i always sign out right after. i honestly don't even know why i added him as a friend a long time ago, because i never have any desire to talk to the guy. i still talk to his sister randomly but that's about it.
anyway, my husband and i are currently separated but we're working on things and he may be coming home on friday. it's still up in the air but of course i want things to work between us. however it's not known to anyone, i never changed my relationship status, said any suggestive comments on my statuses or anything. so this guy has no idea that we're even separated, and as far as he knows my husband is in the next room and everything is peachy.
i decide to say hi back this time, maybe if i chat with him he'll stop IM'ing me everytime i sign on. i seriously have had to check "go offline" to appear offline because can't grasp the concept i don't want to chat with him. anyway the conversation is innocent at first, just catching up. then he says something about laying on his bed and having a problem. im just like okay well good luck with that. he proceeds to ask if i would want to help. WTF? his pervertedness didn't even deserve a response so i just signed off.
clearly i need to delete this guy. but what's up with men who just think they can talk to married women this way? please tell me you've had to deal with your share of rude assholes while married also?
Answer by virginiamama71 at 10:03 PM on May. 17, 2011
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