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Why am I having these fears?

I found a lady that can watch my son and work woth my situation but for somereason I ave these crazy fears about my kid goign to another person's house. I asked the lady if we can view her house and my son meet her so on the first day he won't be so afraid. She agreed but I still have feelings have him not being near me.

And when I was prego a lady would always say people would take my kid away if I didn't do this or that. I never paid that women anymind because she was being beat on by her husband so I figured she was crazy and not suffering like she was. How do i get what that stupid woman said out of my head and focus on what the real deal is?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:52 PM on May. 17, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • I never had my kid watched at someone elses house. I had her at a daycare center because the at home ones freaked me out.

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 10:57 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • I sent my son to an in home daycare that was licensed and all of her references highly recommended her. She was in business for over 10 years.
    I would not feel comfortable sending him to someone who was not in the daycare business and did not have references to give. (unless its family)

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 11:07 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • That possible coud be it. That is why i want to check her home out and go from there. I freak out even if he goes to a daycare. I want someone on my home to watch him so it is less on the both of us....gotta get a nanny cam too. Til then I have to chek this lady out.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:12 PM on May. 17, 2011

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