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Do u ever get jealous when your SO talks about his past girlfriends?

My SO doesn't do it to make me jealous, usually it just gets brought up, n he makes jokes about it, or just tells me about his ex's. I trust him and everything, but I get mental pics of him with these other girls, and it makes me sick to my stomach.. and its not like I can just tell him, that would make him feel bad. anyone else get jealouse too?

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sarahlu

Asked by sarahlu at 10:58 PM on May. 17, 2011 in Relationships

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  • No but I get angry because some treated him like crap.
    SalemWitchChild

    Answer by SalemWitchChild at 10:59 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • neither of us talk about our exes, it's disrespectful and there is really no need to bring up the past
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 10:59 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • yeah, we don't talk about exes.
    emmyandlisa

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 11:02 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • I think its healthy to talk about the past, I ask sometimes, cuz I am curious. and I tell, cuz I want him 2 know who I am and what types of relationships ive been in.
    sarahlu

    Comment by sarahlu (original poster) at 11:06 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • we don't talk about his ex's
    mamawilbur

    Answer by mamawilbur at 11:07 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • I ask him but he refuses to talk about them.
    Simplicity3

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 11:12 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • DONT CARE IF HE TALKS ABOUT THEM BUT HE BETTER NOT THINK TO HARD TO TRY TO MAKE CONTACT
    rinamomof2

    Answer by rinamomof2 at 11:13 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • I don't get jelous..annoyed..yeah...but the only ex's we talk about are the ones we had children with only cause they will forever be in our lives
    happymama02

    Answer by happymama02 at 11:14 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • Jealous, no, but I do get fed up. He's got one that is just an idiot. Her husband doesn't like her talking to other men, so she tries to start crap with her husband and get my husband in the middle. Finally my hubby told her to concentrate on her marriage and leave him alone - so then she leaves her husband. Geez, she really can't take a hint.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 11:14 PM on May. 17, 2011

  • We have talked about them, but neither of them live in this state and we have talked about mine and they live here. We have actually run into one of mine a few times while we were out and running errands.
    coala

    Answer by coala at 11:28 PM on May. 17, 2011

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