I've been in this realtionship for almost 2 years and now we are expecting our first born in JUNE/JULY.. The point of this post is that I have been on bed rest since I was 16 weeks so you probably know I've been unable to work... Prior to me getting pregnant I've always been the breadwinner in the relationship and I will be after I have my son.My partner always oversleeps whenever he does have a joc it's like he doesnot have intiative at all.He recently lost his job and has not got another one b/c he prefers toget high instead of finding work!!
I am staying with my mother and he is staying with his.. He suggested when he got a job me and baby could move in with him, But i do not see him as dependable because he never has been.I spent my last few checks from work getting my son everything he needs...the basics while he has provided no money for anything.
I prefer to stay at my moms till I go back to work and save up money for my own place so I KNOW my son will have a roof over his head.But my partner insists on us getting our own place and me being a stay at home mommy.I donot want to do that because I want a stable home for baby and with me that is it. Right now I donot see any other way and will not have it anyother way.
What would you all do in a situation like this
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