1. I AM HAPPILY MARRIED for 3yrs. We have been together a total of 11yrs (off & off in the early years) since the 10th grade. BUT.
In the 3rd grade I met my BFF, growing up we also hung out with her 2 older brothers, and her oldest sis babysat me. Our parents ended up being friends & would party together. Me & one of the brothers started dating & we had dated ALL through growing up all the way till I was 21, anytime we where single you would find us together. But things kept us apart. our age, our family, my bff & once we where old enough, it seemed like we couldnt stay together anyway (some argument would split us up). And along the way, he kids, and his fair-share of sleeping around (We had never slept together, mind you).
Well. Im 27yo now. Married. with a child.. I seen him last week & it for some reason tugs at my heart. and now im even dreaming about him.
Why am I like this!? Obviously we never worked out. And his adult past is filled with being a "man-hoe", failed marriages & a child to show for each one. But anytime I look into his eyes, I recall that feeling we had. And what might have been.
What do I do? I feel so guilty.
Im just thankful I only have a chance of seeing him about once a year at my BFFs house at her kids bday party.
TY for reading
Asked by Anonymous at 10:53 AM on May. 18, 2011 in Relationships
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