Well I found his BioDad, or at least a link to him, I found his BioDads girlfriend. She has a facebook page. I saw posts about him (biodad), pictures, etc. The town they live in is listed, and I could easily send her a message, but I haven't.... It's been 8 yrs since he's seen my son. My son's almost 15 and is very angry with him, and is going to therapy a couple times a month about it.
Should I message her? They have been together for the past 8 yrs, since he stopped seeing our son, so I know she hasn't encouraged him to contact him. His biodad knows how to contact me, and anyone in my family. I actually spoke to my sons Grandma (his biodads mother). She won't do anything to help, I have asked for her to, and she said she doesn't want in the middle of it, so we don't speak to her often, only when she calls. But she has my address, phone number, etc... So there is a way to contact his son. But he won't. So should I message the Girlfriend? Or should I just leave it alone? My son has said that he doesn't want to contact them, he thinks his biodad should do it, that it's his job if he wants to have a relationship with him... So I feel like if I did contact them, it might get the ball rolling... But then again it might be a dead end, and they could just ignore it... TY ladies....
Asked by Anonymous at 12:35 PM on May. 18, 2011 in Teens (13-17)
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