We have been having problems with our downstairs neighbor ever since our son started to crawl 5-6 months ago. We rent our unit and the guy downstairs owns his, so there is no landlord to complain to about his behavior. He is an older man with no family and is very sick (lung cancer and yes he is STILL freakin' smoking). However, that doesn't give him the right to bang on his ceiling/our floor directly under where my baby is playing and scare the crap out of my son. Nor does it give him the right to the foul language he uses. He has called my son a "fucking brat!" through the floor, and swears every time he hears anything we do.
My son was playing with one of my sneakers and dropped it the other night. Immediately there came a stream of foul language directed at my baby from below. My husband was very upset, as our son is learning to talk, and yelled through the floor "Watch your language!!!" extremely loudly. Keep in mind my husband is the most gentle, sweet man on earth, and he always tries to think the best of everyone. But this was too much for him to let go.
This morning, my husband went out to go to work and his car and motorcycle had been egged. We park to the right of the front door, and only those sides and the front of his bike and car were hit. As if the person throwing the eggs had been standing on our porch to do it. If a neighborhood kid had done it, it would have been the street side ( back) of the cars that were hit, right? Anyway, I don't think it was a kid, I know it was the nasty old fart below. What would you do? Confront him? Call the cops and fill out a police report to document the incident? Call our landlord and complain to her? What would you do?
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