My SO is out of town and an old friend of his who has become a mutual friend came to visit. My SO even asked if he'd decided to come visit and was happy I would have someone to hang out with.
Over the course of the weekend, he went from innocent compliments to down right saying he wanted to fuck me! (seriously, his words). He even slapped my ass while I was cooking supper and said he didn't care if it pissed my SO off. WTF!?
By the time he left, I just wanted my SO home, and had a good cry... The more I think about how badly he behaved, the more pissed I get. I've always had male friends, and NONE of them have any issue respecting me, or my personal boundaries, which I am very vocal about.
The part that scares me, is that I told my SO about what happened (I emailed him, because he's out of town) and I don't want to be blamed for HIS behavior... I've never given ANY indicator that I was interested, or that this was ok- I told him soooo many times that it wasn't!
We've never had any jealousy issues, no mistrust, nothing. I don't want some jackass to be the start of a downfall.
*I know I'm going to hear "You shouldn't have had him around"... So, I'll reiterate, this was a mutual plan with ALL of us- my SO, the friend, me... so that I wouldn't be stuck here alone. It's not something that we even thought twice about, he's never behaved like this before. We were all under the impression (at least my SO and I) that everything was cool.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:20 PM on May. 19, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by sarasmommy777 at 1:23 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by HollyBoBolly at 1:31 PM on May. 19, 2011
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Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 1:36 PM on May. 19, 2011
You should have told him to leave that he was being inappropriate and that you would be telling your SO of the fact...if your SO blames YOU for HIS behavior then you need to kick him in his nutts!!
Answer by happymama02 at 1:41 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by matobe at 1:41 PM on May. 19, 2011
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Answer by happymama02 at 2:07 PM on May. 19, 2011
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