For the last three years my husband has been VERY very particular about going to the gym and what he eats. I respect the fact that he wants to be healthy and in shape. And honestly, his body has definitely changed a lot in the past 3 years. But it's also getting kind of annoying sometimes. Like, him being obsessed with what he eats and not eating. We don't eat out a lot because he doesn't want to eat certain things. I like going out to eat for the atmosphere and just to get out. And lately, he is so busy with work and school is going to be adding onto that later in the summer and he works out like an hour or so a day. It's like I never see him! He knows I get so worn out and exhausted from watching our DD all day long. He gets off work, and then goes straight to the gym. It's like ugh when do I ever get time to myself!? Everything wraps about when he's going to the gym and when/what he eats. Like when we DO go out, he's like "ugh that goes into gym time" i'm like OMG this is family time now...have some fun once in awhile!
I totally get that he wants to be healthy and everything. It's just...it consumes his time! mentally and physically. What do I do? I feel so selfish about all this. It's just getting annoying. Also, when he gets money and it has to go to bills he's like "aw I can't get protein now!" He spends so much money on protein!!! I don't get to get my nails done or anything like that. Idk..ugh. I'm venting lol.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:43 PM on May. 19, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by meooma at 6:46 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by smurfyangel at 6:46 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by CeeCee333 at 6:47 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by girlglow6 at 6:54 PM on May. 19, 2011
Your not being selfish. He is. Tell him you wont some time to yourself too. Tell him he has to make some time for family time and time for you to have alone time away from your DD.
Answer by louise2 at 7:01 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by RubyinPA at 7:09 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by girlglow6 at 7:15 PM on May. 19, 2011