First, I am so sorry that you had to go through this. That is the worst thing that can happen to a mother. I have had everything from a stillborn baby, miscarriages and tubular pregnancies. I have tried and tried to have children. I am truely blessed with 3 wonderful children! But, we sure went through a lot to have them. The best advice that I have is to talk about it. Talk about your baby like he/she is a living child of the family. My stillborn baby (Trevor) is talked about daily. My children know that they had other brothers and sisters that did not make it and they were not even able to meet. When someone asks me how many children I have, I tell them that I have 14 children and 3 living children! They are a part of my life just like the living children are! I will pray for you and keep your head up! If you need to talk, you can ALWAYS write me!
at 4:44 AM on Dec. 7, 2008