I am 10 months post pardum and my husband and I went from having sex 3-5 times per week to once every two weeks or so. I realize there are people who go for months, but it's starting to really wear us down. I basically sleep in my son's room for most of the night and when I DO end up in our bed, dh is all over me. I have NO interest and I feel guilty. I love him to death, but the chemistry is gone. All I want to do is SLEEP in my own bed. By the time he gives up (usually after an hour or so of fondling OR I give in) My son is awake again. All I can think is, "that was 2 hours that I could have been asleep without a baby attached to my boob". We've never had this problem and it's all me. I am also on zoloft, which I hear has this affect, but I had no idea it would be so bad.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:43 PM on May. 19, 2011 in Relationships
Zoloft did that to my ex I'd suggest changing meds!! but I bet your problem is simply the fact that your exhausted tell him that you need to sleep and if he can't understand that then he's a selfish ass!!!! I realize that he's your husband and you probably don't want to hear bad things about him but start waking him and make him stay up with you every time you have to care for your child wake him and have him bring him to you have him change diapers and do everything also if you have a pump then pump so he can help with feedings so you can sleep 4 hours straight !!! if you do this pretty soon he will be just as sleep deprived as you already are but he'll stop groping you and when he goes to bed all he'll want to do is sleep which will give you a break there !!!! tell him he needs to bond with his child!!!! good luck and get some sleep you really need it!!!!!
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