My best friend has a 4 year old little boy who is in preschool ... at his preschool they do psyche evaluations with all of the kids...
The called her in and told her that her son causes pain but doesnt feel bad about it ( I cant remember the word they used) ... He will hurt the other kids, break toys and then acts like nothing happen -- he shows no remorse... They also said that she should think of doing some kind of counsiling with him.
She doesnt think this in true, she thinks nothing is wrong with him.
But I do, I have seen him alot, I have seen how he acts with her and his baby brother and I have seen how he acts around me and my young kids... I really think what they said is true.
He is violent, throws things, breaks things, and he just doesnt seem to care....
I also have a 4 year old and I have a 2 year old... when they do something wrong ( like hit each other or break something) ... then they react, usually act upset over what they did...
I havent told her this and I dont even know if I should.... since she thinks nothing is wrong, she wont get him help...
I have always known she is the kind of mom who really thinks he cant do that much wrong ( I remember her telling me about when she visited another friend and talked about how the other boy kept saying he hit him, and she " just knew that wasnt true")
Asked by Anonymous at 11:01 PM on May. 19, 2011 in Parenting Debate
Answer by emmyandlisa at 11:06 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by ashes27165 at 11:09 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by tootoobusy at 11:09 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by anng.atlanta at 11:10 PM on May. 19, 2011
is the word they used pysopath? if so yes, she does need to be told your opinion, that is the way most serial killers start out. Just take her into getting a second opinion, it is a start.
Answer by lamom2aj at 11:11 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 11:13 PM on May. 19, 2011
Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 2:12 AM on May. 20, 2011
oh wow this is scary. you are in a unique position as a trusted friend to gently provide the information to her in a way that doesn't seem like an attack and possibly get her to understand the severity of the situation and get the child the help he needs. I would imagine that the psych eval was directed to the proper governing bodies for further evaluation ( I hope). please talk to her and encourage her to get the child some counseling. present it as a positive. It will further enhance his positive qualities and help him attain his potential blah blah blah good luck
Answer by nurse_maya at 6:41 AM on May. 20, 2011
Answer by Ms.Gwen at 3:06 PM on May. 20, 2011