Ok so I have an ex with whom I've always been friends with, even before we were dating, and I would talk to him once in a blue moon. We've started talking more frequently and started realizing that we still might have unresolved feelings for each other. Our marriages (both involving children) are making us unhappy and we both feel like we are no longer in love with our partners. We've tried the whole "closure" thing, but for some reason we can't let each other go. Does this mean that I should let go of what I have and pursue him?? Should I bide my time until I can't any longer?? Should I forget the ex and stay with my DH?? I'm pretty torn between the two.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:14 AM on Dec. 7, 2008 in Relationships
I would stop talking to your ex, find a good marriage counselor and figure out your marriage. You need to be in your marriage 100% to give it a real chance at working. In the future if you find that your marriage is not salvageable, divorce and then be single for a while. If you are meant to be with your ex, he will magically appear in your life when you are really ready for him and him for you. It's just my opinion. Dance with the man who brought you.
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