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Sex after baby?

My hubby and I are very sexual people always have been, 5 days after having our son I was ready for some sweet lovins (no I didnt that would have been bad)...

But how long was it after you had your baby did you wish you could make love with your SO?


Asked by Anonymous at 8:30 AM on Dec. 7, 2008 in Just for Fun

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Answers (10)
  • i only waited a week and a half but my husband was deployed and came back a week after DD was born and only got to be home for 2weeks so yea i wasnt goin to wait a year before being with him again

    Answer by mommy033 at 9:08 AM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • About 3 weeks after I was ready LOL. I probably could have sooner but I was so tired with no sleep I could barely stay awake. By 3-4 weeks I was on a schedule and ready.

    Answer by gemgem at 8:32 AM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • I didnt feel ready for a really long time.. at least 4months, because i had my period for 5months straight. and i also suffered from PPD... so i didnt feel like gettin some lovins at all... :-/

    Answer by m.robertson811 at 8:40 AM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • 3 weeks :)

    Answer by haleykarson at 8:42 AM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • I had a normal vaginal delivery, I had a small tear, but we still had sex 3 weeks after, yeah ouch. It was worth it though :)

    Answer by TinaNichole at 8:43 AM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • No longer than 4 weeks with any of them.

    Answer by munch12502 at 10:46 AM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • I made him wait 6 weeks with the first and 8 with the second. Then I did it cause he was needy... I could have gone months!

    Before we had kids I wanted if every day 5 or 6 times...

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 10:53 AM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • We waited 6 weeks.

    Answer by TeaAndrews at 11:17 AM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • With my first (vaginal) we waited a really long time. It was 3 months after the baby came and it was so miserable it was a VERY long time before I agreed again! Now with my C I was ready before the 6 weeks was up! The incision was a little uncomfortable but we've been happy since! :O)


    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 12:14 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • i wanted to about 3 weeks cause we didnt do it for like 3 mo before hand but i was on my period for 3 mo thats when we did it

    Answer by flgatorchick15 at 12:31 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

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