Okay so I have sat down and talked to my SO and he said that he is ready but he is scared. I told him I was scared to but we eventually have to do it. And then when I talk to him another time he is like no were not having kids right now. But yet he REFUSES to use a condom. And he wont pull out. So do you think maybe he just doesnt want to admit it? I notice that he tells his friends that he is not ready and I wonder if its because he is embarrassed. I just dont get it. I even try to make him use a condom because I will not force him to have kids if he doesnt want to. So whats the deal?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:17 AM on Dec. 7, 2008 in Trying to Conceive
Answer by gemgem at 9:52 AM on Dec. 7, 2008
Answer by imanixon2 at 10:31 AM on Dec. 7, 2008
Answer by briezysmommy at 4:37 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
Typical man... can't commit to saying that he is ready to start trying, can't take the responsibility of it. If he was so set against it he would either wear a condom or pull out. I say he is ready... just go with the flow and see what happens. He can't "blame" a pregnancy on you because he had a part in birth control too and chose not to use it. Good luck and lots of baby dust to you!
Answer by Anonymous at 9:54 AM on Dec. 8, 2008