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What advise would you give to a first time mom?

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tspillane

Asked by tspillane at 3:05 PM on May. 20, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • sleep when the baby sleeps, worry about cleaning/household stuff later. sleep is important to a new mom! also, don't rush his/her growth.. milestones come when they come and they grow really fast :)
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 3:08 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • never underestimate what a 5 year old will do for a sticker.
    onethentwins

    Answer by onethentwins at 3:09 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • Say goodbye to the life you know..... but, you get a whole new one and after some adjustment, its great:) No one can prepare new parents for the change.
    Mel_in_PHX

    Answer by Mel_in_PHX at 3:09 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • Hang on for the ride of your life...........
    older

    Answer by older at 3:09 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • Never take your anger out on the child. Take a breather, and walk out of the room if you feel like you are losing control. Don't ever be afraid to ask for help if you need it!
    GomezMami2908

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 3:13 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • get used to the baby talk. I asked my husband last night if he was ready to go nite nite.
    Eisleysmommy27

    Answer by Eisleysmommy27 at 3:16 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • To remind yourself how short the baby time is, even when it seems to last forever. It won't take long before they are running down the road to school and you will wonder where that baby went!
    Freela

    Answer by Freela at 3:20 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • my sister gave me this advice yesterday. i have a 9 month old and last night i went out to hooters with some girl friends. she told me it was good that i was going out. when she had her kids (who are teenagers now) her life became just them and only them. she had no friends and regrets not making time for herself to still be herself and go out sometimes and have fun. it does not make you a bad mom to go out and just have fun 2, 3, even 4 times a month. it will keep you sane and grounded.
    momofone725

    Answer by momofone725 at 3:21 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • Ask for help even if you don't need it. Those few minutes are great for a nap.

    when you think that another new mom has it all together and you feel insecure, keep in mind that the exact same thing is going thru her head about you.

    When you get frustrated, it IS ok to leave the room and let them cry for a minute until you can get control.

    The house does NOT have to be picked up each day just because you are home all day. Raising a baby is hard work and takes a LOT of time. Don't be too hard on yourself. If at the end of the day, you are all fed and clean, that is all that matters.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 3:25 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • Trust yourself
    ochsamom

    Answer by ochsamom at 3:40 PM on May. 20, 2011

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