I met this guy at my cousin's wedding about 4 months ago. He's been a friend of their family for 20 years, so he's got a solid reference. We've been talking on the phone every night for hours. Everything so far has been wonderful! But I'm flying up to see him for the first time next weekend, and it's the first time we'll physically be together. I am really anxious about it! The thing is (at the risk of sounding mean), he's a little dorky. In a good way- he's seriously one of the sweetest guys I've ever met and I love that about him, but I can't help but wonder "what if he's_________ (awkard, underconfident, quick, name your cliche)." I hate to be so superficial but there it is... anyone been in a similar situation? How did it go?
Answer by Anonymous at 4:14 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
Answer by cat1622 at 3:45 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
I wouldn't take this relationship to serious. Sense you have only met him in person once, and only talked on the phone. I would go up their once, and if I didn't feel any sparks fly. I would drop him. Nicely of coarse.
Answer by louise2 at 3:55 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
Answer by admckenzie at 4:40 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
Answer by esr at 5:14 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
Answer by esr at 5:16 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
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