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Sad, hurt, mad

im so sad and mad and want to cry that SO is going to a family function and didn't invite me
when i said, can i go?
he said "i guess"
i go "you mean, yes?"
he goes "i guess" again
and he leaves without me but actually said bye for once

what the hell!!!
is this normal, or do you find it odd too


Asked by Liz4Life at 9:25 PM on May. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I guess...umm. Yeah, that would be an issue for me. You wouldn't catch me anywhere near the function. I would make plans of my own that didn't include him.

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 9:34 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • jerk! it does seem kinda' weird- unless its something like an all guys fishing trip or brother's only camp out...

    Answer by bloomsr at 9:30 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • I think if my hub said that to me, he'd be getting his butt kicked, literally.

    "Gee thx for the support, Ass."

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 9:30 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • I don't know if I would read too much into that. I mean, today I asked my man if he wanted to go get our marriage lisence and he was like "I guess." I could have jumped his ass for not going "Hell yeah, I want to go" and I didn't take it as him not wanting to get our lisence-I took it as him being a butt.

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 9:31 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • i called him i made him apologize and he admitted he was being a jerk
    but wouldnt tell me why and that he couldnt explain why at this moment

    Comment by Liz4Life (original poster) at 9:35 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • He wouldn't tell you why? Now there is definitely a problem. I'm just tossing crap out there but do you think his family might have invited one of his exes over or anything?

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 9:39 PM on May. 20, 2011

  • fam would want me there, it's not about his ex's...
    thanks tho

    Comment by Liz4Life (original poster) at 9:52 PM on May. 20, 2011

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