My "DH" and I have not had sex in nearly 3 months. He's never been one to care too much about sex I guess you could say. If we have it we have it, if we don't it's just not a big deal to him.
We've been in marriage therepy since January for a completely different issue, but at our last session, our therepist suggested ways to get the "spark" back or whatever. We each have to do little things we either don't normally do or just have not done in a while. It didn't have to be sexual per se, but just going an extra mile or something. So, today was my day off and I literally spent the entire day doing what all wives/moms do on their days off...I cleaned the house from top to bottom and so on. I made a nice dinner, took a shower, did my hair, got out of my pajamas and put on my sex perfume.
The evening was nice. One of the best we've had in quite a while. I sent him signals that could stop an airplane, and he was sending them back. I gave him a nice massage, let him pick our evening movie and we even took a shower together. We started kissing, and making out like we use to do oh so many years ago. I doated all over him..telling him how much I love his body, how much he turns me on etc. He got an erection and I took advantage of it, something I truely love to do. After I was done doing what I thought was a sufficant job, I continued touching his body and rubbing him...and he started dozing off. Seriously, not 5 minutes after I stopped touching him he was sound asleep. I rolled over and decided what the hell, I'll just take care of myself which woke him up and he started grabbing my boob and actually fell asleep while grabbing me.
No he's not having an affair. He doesn't have a stressful job, he doesn't have a physically demanding job. He's 30, in great health etc.
Reall ladies I don't know what else to do. If I don't try anything I don't get anything and even when I do try I don't get anything. I could wake him up right now and ask him to do me and he would say "ok" and be asleep again within a minute. I'm at a loss here, and it's no so much that I am looking for responses as I just really needed to vent.
Thanks for listening,
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