I just went through this with my dd who is going to be 18 in June. The guy she had been in love with since she was 12, lost her virginity to, and thought that they would be together forever...Well, we had my son's funeral, and my niece through marriage was there, and he ended up with her. It went on for three weeks, until people started asking who the girl that he was walking around town with was. It was really hard for me to keep my mouth shut, but I told her that the decision was hers, and that we loved her no matter what. I did point out that she is beautiful, and that she could do a lot better, and deserved a lot better. So she told him to get out, and told him to go find Beth, that she wasn;t going to deal with it anymore. I was so proud of her, because I knew how it broke her heart! First she lost her big brother, and then she lost him! She's still reeling from it, but at least she has her self respect!
at 3:09 AM on May. 21, 2011