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I need quick help okay i was having sex with somebody towards the end of october then i got what i believed was a period soon after then in november i started having sex with somebody else and at the end of novemeber i never got my period so im trying to figure out if i got prego in october or november my ultrasound put me as my lmp october 24 meaning i conceived novemeber but idk can someone help please

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:13 PM on May. 21, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • I'd suggest a paternity test when the baby is born.

    Answer by Octobersmom at 5:21 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • surprised


    Answer by Anonymous at 5:24 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • If they did an ultra sound then they went off of measurements to come get your due date and last AF.

    That means based on the ultra sound you concieved sometime around November 7th because on ultra sounds the assume a 28 day cycle when they give you a last AF date if you can not remember the exact date BUT you have to remember that ultra sound can be off by nearly 2 weeks either side of the due date you are given so you may have concieved earlier or later than what it says.

    JUST GOING ON THE ULTRA SOUND and the AF you had AFTER intercourse with Guy #1 I would say baby is MOST LIKELY Guy # 2s but honestly...there is NOWAY to know for sure without a DNA test.


    Answer by Anonymous at 5:25 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • have them do an ultrasound to set a due date, that is much more accurate then LMP because implantation bleeding can easily be confused with a period. then from the due date go back 40 weeks and that should give you a fairly accurate date of when you actually got's not 100% accurate but it can give you a very good idea but the main thing you need to do is CALM DOWN!! you can tell in your post your freaking out. you dont have to tell anyone your preggo yet, just relax figure out whats going on and then go from there. you need to tell the potential father soon, but your well being is most important

    Answer by julie.f at 5:26 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • shruggingyou could be honest with your dr and ask


    Answer by Anonymous at 5:27 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • DNA both guys and be careful not to sleep with 2 men so close together next time.

    Answer by keisha613 at 6:16 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • who do you think it is?
    does your gut feeling tell you anything?
    gl your not alone

    Answer by Liz4Life at 7:10 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • Time to call Maury.

    Answer by mrsziemann at 10:48 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • mrsziemann jst bc someone asks a ? like this doesnt mean you need to post a comment like Time to call Maury i mean really were here to help others out not be like that and put us down were her for support everyone makes mistakes and no reason for that bs ...if you were a kid id say grow up and act your age....sweetie just be honest with both of the guys you were with tell them you would like both of them to summit to a dna test that way this baby will have a father and a mother....and when the paper work comes back go from there dont lose any sleep over this there are alot of ppl who are or were in you position...GL

    Answer by rachel216 at 11:22 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • Fuck off rachel.

    Answer by mrsziemann at 12:21 AM on May. 22, 2011

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