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Save our family after a seperation

So my daughter father and I have agreed to separate. We signed a paper sayin that we agreed to separate until our situation/ problems can be resolved. What does that mean? Then at the end it says in the event that problems cannot be resolved that our agreement will still stand. I don't want to ask him cause I don't want to push although I want OUR family back together. How can I save us and our family

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:36 PM on May. 21, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • It means whatever is in the agreement regarding custody, child support or anything else will stand if you stay apart.

    Answer by gemgem at 7:37 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • Depends on what the problem is. Why did you separate?? We need more info to help you. Generally I would say try and talk to him and remember the key to it all is a compromise. Try to remember why you both fell in love and work from there. Good luck.. It's the best I can do until I know what the problem is..

    Answer by gutterflower585 at 7:39 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • What are the situations and problems? Can they be resolved and fixed? Is this something your husband also wants?

    Answer by meooma at 7:42 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • If you and your husband agree to save the marriage, try marriage counseling

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 7:45 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • It's just stuff I was suppose to do months ago. He complained I didn't clean the house all the time and I always would bitch about something him would do. He has his faults in lying about stupid stuff..

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:45 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • I'm with what gutter says. Also bumping :)

    Answer by bootiecall at 7:45 PM on May. 21, 2011

  • i agree with virginamama71

    Answer by ashes27165 at 7:52 PM on May. 21, 2011

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