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I was just telling my SO if he likes this new pink blouse i got....

and i go "its kinda girly but i kinda like it"
cuz i usually dont dress really girly, more just sporty...
and he goes "why cuz you dress like a man"

i totally dont and he was being mean
then i go what! say sorry, that wasnt very nice
and he goes, fine but if i do i wont mean it

i know its HIS problem and im thinking whats up his but?
he still refuses to apologize
should i just let it go or be persistent?

im even in another room and plan on sleeping here since i dont want to be near him
what should i do?


Asked by Liz4Life at 12:48 AM on May. 22, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (4)
  • well I think he was a jerk for saying it the way he said it (there are more polite ways to tell your SO you don't really like the way they dress). BUT at the same time, he is being honest with you, and if he does apologize, he really WON'T mean it because it is how he feels.. he can only apologize about his approach and tone. I suggest having him apologize in another way.. by whipping out his wallet tomorrow while you both go shopping for clothes that both you and him can agree suit you better.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 1:08 AM on May. 22, 2011

  • Let it go and ask him what kind of clothes he likes to see you in.

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 12:50 AM on May. 22, 2011

  • DOUCHE!!! Sorry hun thats not nice he should of kept that to himself if thats what he truly believe..fuck if he was playing or not its not nice!!

    Answer by babygirl_18 at 12:56 AM on May. 22, 2011

  • wow i'm sorry mama

    Answer by mamawilbur at 1:33 AM on May. 22, 2011