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separation anxiety?

so i hate my inlaws they are racist drug addict morons! and after a big fight i dont trust them with our son. my hubby assumes i have separation anxiety since i wont leave our son with any of them. (i dont trust them and dont want them smoking pot around my 9 month old son!) i will leave our son wit my family since non of them do drugs. at church our son goes with my hubbys friends wife at a class. so i do leave our son with ppl i trust and know they wont do harmful stuff around him. does this mean i have separation anxiety??
do u have it?


Asked by Anonymous at 7:52 PM on Dec. 7, 2008 in General Parenting

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Answers (7)
  • That's not separation anxiety. That's just being a good mama and protecting your son.

    Answer by jessradtke at 1:43 AM on Dec. 8, 2008

  • no it just means your doing what your supposed to....protecting your son.good for you. I wouldnt let my children go there either!

    Answer by navywifey08 at 7:55 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • if you dont trust them, DONT LET THEM HAVE YOUR BABY. in the end you are responsible for your babys life and safety. if anything happens to your baby you will blame yourself forever. dont let anyone have your baby that you dont trust not just your inlaws. what does you SO say about them having your baby?? does he understand that they are irresponsible????

    Answer by leksismommy at 7:56 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • you dont have separation anxiety, you have the natural worying about your baby

    Answer by leksismommy at 7:57 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • I think it means your being a smart mom! If i knew that my in laws or even my family would possibly do that around my child i would never let them watch my child. If they had a problem with it then i'd tell them the situation. Good Luck!

    Answer by kinzleysmommy at 7:57 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • dont let them get to you honey, youre doing the right thing

    Answer by leksismommy at 8:05 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • Nope, not at all. Keep doing what you're doing and that's being a great mom for trusting your instincts and protecting your son. It's our job.

    Answer by LovingParent08 at 10:44 PM on Dec. 7, 2008