I've been trying to put the spark back into our marriage, so I've been asking DH to tell me what he finds sexy and what he doesn't. Whenever I ask him, he always shrugs and says "Whatever you want, Babe."
Come ON! That's not an answer to my question, I know it and he knows it, but that's all I ever hear from him on the subject. I know many women would LOVE to hear that their husbands believe in making the sex all about the woman's wants/needs, but is it so ridiculous to want to make it all about HIM occasionally and get some guidance on how to do that effectively? I couldn't have been more straightforward with him, I asked the questions in plain English.
What would you do in my place? Forget about it? Keep asking? What?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:16 AM on May. 22, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by samurai_chica at 10:24 AM on May. 22, 2011
What do you mean? "What he finds sexy and what he doesn't"? When I hear that I automaticallything of body image. Tall dark and handsome. If you are talking about sexual thing in the bed you might want to rephrase it.
Answer by louise2 at 10:28 AM on May. 22, 2011
Answer by Audrice1985 at 11:16 AM on May. 22, 2011
Answer by Audrice1985 at 11:19 AM on May. 22, 2011