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Am I pregnant? please help adult content

May 20th, i got off of my 3 day light period with two days of spotting before the light flow. Now for the past two days I've been feeling really sick and I have had pressure kinda like a cramp but not, in my lower abdomen and back. I've also been switching back in forth between being constipated and having diarrhea. And just yesterday afternoon I've noticed my breast are very sore, like there is not a real change in their appearance but they hurt just to be bumped. I'm just confused because i know some of these symptoms can be related to your period, but i just thought i had a period, so the symptoms shouldn't be just starting when i didn't have one symptom my whole period. If anyone can help I would really appreciate it, thank you lady's!

BTW: I'm 19 and I haven't taken birth control ever, and for the last yr. of my almost 3 yr. relationship haven't used protection just the pull out method. My periods are irregular more like a 35-40 day cycle, but I'm a tiny girl and am pretty active. My doctors told me I'm totally fine, that i can still conceive. I haven't taken a test yet, just because I really am confused and wondered if I was even having symptoms. This would be my first child if I am pregnant, so i just don't really know whats going on with my body.

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Asked by jjb234 at 10:34 AM on May. 22, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • Idk, have you taken a pregnancy test? If the results are yes, then I would go to your doctor so they can actually take a more accurate pregnancy test. If the results says no, then I would take another one in one more month and if that one says no then I wouldn't worry too much about it.

    Answer by Diamond2010 at 10:43 AM on May. 22, 2011

  • it depends. I would go back and look at previous cycles and see if you had sex right around ovulation (keep in mind sperm can survive up to 3 days-on average inside a woman's body-in fertile cervical mucous). My first symptom with every pregnancy (this is my 3rd) was sore nipples/breasts. nausea doesn't usually start right away. frequent urination can, but could also be period related. IF you had bleeding recently and suspect you could be, you can take a test now. the bleeding could have been something else (implantation for example) I can tell you, this pregnancy I had minor bleeding when I dd not know I was pregnant yet from having sex. when I tested positive I told my doctor and he ordered a blood test. Sex can irritate the cervix a bit and can cause slight-to moderate bleeding. (I thought I had a period!) So, take a test and if you're still worried, call the doctor. Good Luck.

    Answer by Wonderland12777 at 10:45 AM on May. 22, 2011



    Answer by marysmama09 at 10:55 AM on May. 22, 2011

  • Get a pregnancy test----it could be the FLU or it could be your imagination....but we don't know. Symptoms usually show up when you are about 4 weeks pregnant.Get a TEST!


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    Answer by minnesotanice at 11:05 AM on May. 22, 2011

  • Take a test!

    Answer by tspillane at 11:32 AM on May. 22, 2011

  • Yes, wait NO,,,wait another minute....maybe. A test could tell you for sure, take one.

    Answer by meooma at 11:47 AM on May. 22, 2011

  • Could have been your period or could have been implantation bleeding. You could go ahead and take a test, if it is negative and your symptoms continue wait a week and test again. At least that is what I would do.

    Answer by amber1330 at 11:52 AM on May. 22, 2011

  • take an egg out of the fridge, crack it open into a bowl. If theres 1 yolk your having one baby. If theres 2 yolks your having twins.

    Answer by campbellb3421 at 12:01 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • This can be very confusing the only way you will know for sure is to test, it is possible, sore breast, some morning sickness. I have never had direaah with a pregnantcy, You can have some bleeding with pregnantcy as well, I would advice to take a test.

    Answer by Codragonfly at 1:06 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • Take a test!

    Answer by Mikayla_lynn at 2:01 PM on May. 22, 2011

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