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Boyfriend or x???

This is for my litle cousin.She had sex with her boyfriend on a monday.Then on a thursday she had sex with her x.She had sex with them both uunprotected.Remind you she is 15...really have no brain.But anyways By her having sex with her boyfriend first would his sperm more likely have gotten her pregnant first before her x?She is now pregnant.

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:23 PM on Dec. 7, 2008 in Pregnancy

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  • only a dna test can say for sure! call maury! lol (i dont mean the maury as being rude)

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:25 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • Wow, 15, that's sad with 2 boys that close together. Anyway, there's really no way to tell since they were only a couple days apart. If it were a week then maybe. She's going to have to get a DNA test

    Answer by a_and_j_momma at 8:26 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • doesnt matter who she had sex with 1st.. she needs help!! a 15 yr old shouldnt be havin sex like that..

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:29 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • Sperm can live up to 5 days. Does she know her due date?

    Answer by Southerncharmes at 8:29 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • A due date is only an estimate and can be off by AT LEAST a week and sometimes two. So i would be impossible to calculate who is the father. She will have to do a DNA test... why was she doing that? Does she want a baby?! Reality is going to be hard for her...

    Answer by AshJoe05 at 8:30 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • i missread that first.. it could be either one.. seriously have her go to maury, it's a free dna test and the trip is covered too..

    Answer by sunshinebaby209 at 8:35 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • No way to know which sperm got to the egg first. With only a few days between them it could be either partner. Sperm can live up to five days, so she could still have had sperm from each sex partner living in her reproductive tract at the same time. If she chooses to have the baby she can look into DNA testing after the birth. There really is no other way to know.

    Answer by Freela at 8:37 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • wow, tell your "cousin" to be careful, noone should be having sex like that...... (unprotected and w/ multiple partners)

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:44 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • It all depends on when she ovulated. That would be the only way to tell who fathered the baby without DNA is if she knew exactly when she ovulated. Sperm can live up to 4 days in perfect conditions. They don't always live that long it depends on the cervical mucus and such at the time. So there's no way for her to know without a DNA test.

    Answer by mommacat at 9:25 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

  • at least she can narrow it between two people!! i see girls on TV that have 6 guys lined up for testing!!

    she has to get a DNA test when the baby is born.

    Answer by charisma10 at 9:45 PM on Dec. 7, 2008

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