i can't sit here and not cry or act like its not going to happen. Dh is deploying to his mob site in less than 60 days(i know the exact date). I can't stand to think of him not being here for DS 2nd birthday, DD 4th, christmas, etc. He is going to be gone for our second anniversary. &btw he was gone for the first.
I know where he is going, I know kinda what he is going to do. but that doesnt change it. I cry at night thinking that he isnt coming back, that i have to raise OUR kids alone, without their daddy.
how does everyone do it? I just can't, and i dont know why, i know tons of women and men have their loved ones deploy and i know they have to deal with it but i just dont know how.
knowing what i know he saw and went through from his first deployment, well lets just say, he is lucky, very lucky!
what can i do?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:50 PM on Dec. 7, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by cat1622 at 9:59 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
Sorry to hear this. Find a support group of other wives in you area going through the same thing.
Answer by PrttyMstng at 10:00 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
Have you thought of going home to were your family is.For the support until he get back home?? My DH was in Iraq for 15 months. You have to be strong for your kids.
Answer by louise2 at 10:04 PM on Dec. 7, 2008
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