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dh and I just had sex, after he finished, we got into the shower.
He got out of the shower, said "I don't feel good" and passed out. He might have been "out of it" like 30 seconds and then remembers talking to me.

I thought he was faking it, because he is dramatic. However, his face was white as a ghost.

Obviously, he needs to go to the doctor. But, has anyone or your dh done this before?

He claims after we finish having sex, he's light headed, but again, I took it as him being dramatic.

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:32 PM on May. 22, 2011 in Health

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  • Does this happen every time? If so, he needs to see a doctor.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 8:33 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • I agree better safe than sorry

    Answer by mamaofficer at 8:35 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • I think he needs to see a dr and no, I havent seen that before.

    Answer by KayGia0704 at 8:37 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • he's always light-headed after intercourse.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:37 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • Wow, that sounds kinda scary, and definitely not normal behaviour for a man after sex. Get him to a doctor.

    Answer by judimary at 8:37 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • I would take this seriously. It could be his heart.

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 8:38 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • Heavy breathing, panting and sighing can make you hyperventilate. Next time it happens, take a couple of slow deep breaths.

    Also, during sex the genital area gets engorged with blood, reducing the amount circulating elsewhere. And blood vessels near your skin expand too.

    If you try to get up too quickly there won't be enough blood circulating to your brain to keep it active - and you can feel faint

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:38 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • I've never had this and just asked my own hubby. He said if this ever happens to him he would like me to take him to the ER. He's about 40 and has never had this happen.

    Answer by angelmommy11 at 8:38 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • I thought it might be his heart too.
    My DH is 31. Scared the shit out of me.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:41 PM on May. 22, 2011

  • He needs to see a doctor as soon as possible . It could be something as simple as low blood sugar but it could equally be something more serious . Don't delay and make him go - I know some men will do almost anything to avoid doctors - you cannot afford to accept ' no ' as an answer.

    Answer by janet116 at 8:42 PM on May. 22, 2011

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