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Sex??

how often does it happen since you've had kids..weve gone from 2-3 times day to now 2-3 times a week(a good week)

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socalikim

Asked by socalikim at 3:39 AM on May. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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  • well we don't have kids yet but i hear it usally doesn't happen as often. sounds like you are still more than the average couple.
    ChanQ

    Answer by ChanQ at 4:09 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • currently, we have sex 2-3times a day. Unless I'm on my monthly. But we can go down to as little as a couple times a week for a bad week, like if we're annoyed with one another.
    DomoniqueWS

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 5:03 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • ya'll are lucky..
    ilovemymonsterr

    Answer by ilovemymonsterr at 6:35 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • 2-3 times a week is better for the relationship. I was reading not long ago that couples who have sex everyday or more, are much more likely to burn out on each other much quicker than couples who take breaks here & there. And (not surprising) the men get burned out much quicker than the women do.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 6:47 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • we seem to have sex all weekend...we're too tired & busy during the week though...
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 6:48 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • Wow- lucky! We don't have sex that often, maybe 1-2 times a week. Life is pretty busy and sometimes stressful nowadays, so I think it's normal at this point.
    lovingmy4babies

    Answer by lovingmy4babies at 7:25 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • I am the one in the relationship who likes it alot, Im 9 years younger tha nmy DH and so hes kind of blahzeeh about it, but we try for at least 3-4 times a week on a bad week. I mean weve gone a week or two without it, but it depends on where were at with each other. I actualy asked a couple of friends of mine, and they each get it like only 1 or 2 times a month. That would put me up a wall!
    kgrine

    Answer by kgrine at 11:11 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • We have sex at least once a day on a bad day and it is like that every day and always has been.
    LiLJeni

    Answer by LiLJeni at 3:38 PM on May. 23, 2011

  • DANG kids and three times a week?!? We're lucky to shoot for once a week when the baby naps on Saturdays... I'd say you have a healthy relationship and there should be no concern.... truly
    hollydaze1974

    Answer by hollydaze1974 at 3:44 PM on May. 23, 2011

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