So I have been told by two professionals that I enable others. They say that I am a giver and I feel compelled to make others happy.
In turn I have been through two divorces. I have three kids....By my first hubby. Great kids. I feel I have enabled my older daughter. I am fighting like hell to change this behavior.
I don't mean to do this. I get sucked in by these guys that see my kind nature and then BOMB! I am taking care of them and all their bad habits.
Any suggestions? I honestly feel to protect myself it is best never to marry again. Just to concentrate on my kids. I do get lonely. I have desires but have worked through them. I am embarrassed by my failed marriages knowing that I created a mess.
People tell me I am beautiful. I get asked out all the time. But I just say no. If I ever do date how do you tell someone you enable others and dating me probably would not be good. I have been alone a while now.
Just feel like I will die old and alone.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:06 AM on May. 23, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by MizLee at 11:08 AM on May. 23, 2011
Answer by gemgem at 11:09 AM on May. 23, 2011
Answer by KFree907 at 11:33 AM on May. 23, 2011
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