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Would you be angry if... adult content

your SO masturbated? A friend of mine called me all upset because she caught her dh in the shower pleasuring himself. She said they have sex like 4-5 times a week. I told her that it would not bug me. Hell we don't have sex 4-5 times a week and if he wants to pleasure himself he can have at it. As long as I get some.


Asked by Shaken1976 at 11:13 AM on May. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Sounds like your friend need a course in human sexuality!! It's normal... I don't particularly want to see my DH doing it... but would it upset me?? Ahh no!! It's his penis... if he wants to touch it why would I be upset?!?!?


    Answer by Crafty26 at 11:22 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • Your friend has another think coming to her lol!!!! (ALL MEN MASTERBATE)

    Answer by LANDENSMOMMYlmk at 11:14 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • Haha well, I think her hubby should be honest with her and let her know that he does masturbate. There is nothing wrong with masturbation, I actually find this quite funny.


    Answer by kaylan010 at 11:24 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • Nope mine does it. We skype sex cause hes never home lol

    Answer by Mrs_Harsh at 11:16 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • Your friend is not alone. I get upset too. As much as it is nature for men to do it I have learned subconsiously that I'm not pleasing and there is petential to cheet. I know in my head that doesn't mean thats what is happening but I think it and get upset.

    Answer by Kimkh at 11:30 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • lol all men masterbate.. just tell her it'll make him last longer in the bedroom. and it's better his hand than another woman.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 11:52 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • Your friend doesn't masturbate? How odd.

    Answer by CraftingMama at 11:31 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • No, I wouldn't be upset. I did catch him once, but he didn't see me.

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 11:31 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • no my husband dosn't masturbate though

    Yeah, right! You are living in a dream world, sorry


    Answer by Anonymous at 11:32 AM on May. 23, 2011

  • ehhh... let her keep dreaming. And to the person who said they have sex 3-4 times a night. All I have to say is Wow!!! How long have you been together?

    Comment by Shaken1976 (original poster) at 11:35 AM on May. 23, 2011